(((((((((( Jasssysnazzysexiest)))))))))) Thank you! I will keep you posted best I can. Think we are heading into some rough stuff with the chemo. Bless his heart, that's some real scarey stuff. I pushed and pushed for the "official" instead of "verbal" Radiologist report the other night...thought I was being non chalant about it and Dad said "Girl...get off my case I will ask on Monday" LMAO....I felt like an idiot. He said it in a joking loving way, but I got the hint. Tina just hates the unknown, drives me nuts! Thanks again for thinking of us!
Yes Diva I am a fighter...just wish I didn't have to fight so many battles at once. My father is top priority tho, the other can wait for the time being and God help the bastard next in line. Karma Baby Karma! Thank you for keeping my Dad in your thoughts hon, it's a huge comfort knowing you are there. You are one of a kind Diva. One of a kind.
That Is good news Teeeeeend, I'm glad to hear it, and haven't stopped thinking about him at least one day since I've heard. There really is nothing else to say, you're a fighter, and I know you'll keep on fighting.
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(((((( Tenderrrrrrrriest)))))))) That is positive news! Its good to hear your Dad is in good spirits too. I would tell you to just keep up that battle..but I know you already will. Keep the hope strong. I will be waiting for another update with more...*the results are good* in it!
Jassy...Thank you for your kind words and friendship. I agree, I am strong, always have been but in a situation like this I feel completely powerless and I've had a really hard time with all of this. HOWEVER...today he finished his last of 15 radiation treatments and we got a verbal "the results are good"..don't know the specifics, but praise God, I tell you that little sentence lit up my day with Hope and more courage. My father is in great spirits and is fighting this bastard of a disease with all of his might and as always I am so proud of him. Now on to the chemo with our battle suits on and our spirits high.
I hope your friend is doing well and getting all of the emotional and physical support so needed in times like these. I know facing this disease can paralyze a person with fear because it's so aggressive and spreads so quickly. and somehow you gotta be a step ahead of it with all your weapons. I haven't stopped researching, calling on Clinical Trials, emailing doctors, emailing nurses, contacting drug companies etc...since this began and I won't stop until I know in my heart that my Dad has had the best possible options out there. And friends please ....just an FYI...we all know that Melanoma is associated with Sun Exposure and early sunburns as a child etc. but the biggest factor is those damn moles. My father hated the sun and did not worship it by any means. All of this was from a birthmark he's had all his life. Get them checked out, get them removed if they pose any threat. Time is of the essence because this disease moves so fast before you know it, its flowing through your blood.
Sorry for the soap box speech... I am so tired...but fighting and trying really hard to be brave. Thank you all for your kind thoughts and prayers. Please keep praying, we still have a long journey ahead.
Love ya's all TNT
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Hey sweety. I am so sorry to hear this. You and your father & family have my prayers. I have a friend who has been diagnosed with almost the same thing, her lungs, breast and into her brain. I understand your emotions. I do know you some and you are strong Martina. You just keep the faith hun. Remember you have many friends and if you ever need to vent or even just a hug...virtual it might be...but I'm here to give you one as are so many more I am sure.
Give yourself whatever gifts of time and rest you need to feel better - and know that you're surrounded by caring thoughts and prayers and heartfelt wishes. Diva
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I found out on Saturday that the melanoma my father was diagnosed with in August has traveled to his brain ( 4 brain mets) and his chest and his throat. There is no cure. He is currently undergoing 15 days of whole brain radiation with the hopes to buy some time. I am heartbroken as any of you who know me, know how dear my father is to me. He is still a young man and I angry at how he is being cheated, how all of us are being cheated. Please I beg for the power of prayer at this critical time. I am beside myself and feel powerless.